Culture Creation

Creating the right culture is the most important task leaders can undertake to reach a broken, post-Christian society, and yet often we give culture creation very little mental effort.  In fact, because culture is largely unseen, we are mostly unaware of the cultural soil we have created in our churches, small groups, or ministries.

This explains why several churches may be trying to reach the same group with the same methods, but one just “feels” completely different than the other.  That intangible “feel” is the culture.

I became aware of this through Gabriella, a spiritually curious young woman who wrote to me about her past attempts of going to church:  

“I feel so much guilt and always feel like I just don’t belong.  So it was a very big step to walk into your church this past Sunday.  I have to say I was very welcomed by everyone, and I loved the service and teaching.  I just wanted to thank you and the staff for creating such a warm and loving environment for people to open up to even hear the message, knowing that whatever level they’re coming in at is okay—they’ll be loved for who they are!  I know with any organization that attitude comes from the top and is duplicated by the whole organization, which can be good or bad, but yours is GREAT!”

She had only been once!  Curious visitors pick up on culture in a church immediately, though it may be imperceptible to members.  Culture makes all the difference in the world in a post-Christian society.  This is why effective leadership must be synonymous with creating the right culture.  This is the glue that holds any organization together.  Culture creation forms the texture of relational life and community in a local church.

The outcome of an effective culture is an engaging BODY–a community of faith that God uses to transform individuals, neighborhoods, cities, and societies – the invisible God made visible through us. But it’s messy. How do you create culture?

  1. Leadership Mindset – How leaders think about themselves and the church creates the core from which the culture grows.  What picture do the leaders have in their heads of what Christ’s body looks and feels like, when we meet – in the lobby, in community, in the world?  How you think about Christ’s church will reflect how you teach and talk.  Are you living out the Way of Christ—are your unchurched friends becoming the church and the leaders of the church? Do you live out the values of a Biblically functioning community, loving one another?  Culture starts with how we think about ourselves and the church, and who it’s really for.
  2. Training & Values – How are you equipping your leaders to live out your values? Your front line leaders are the ones who most shape the culture, even more than what is said or done up front.
  3. Visionary Story-telling – What gets communicated over and over? What stories get told to reinforce what the church is about?  How are people supposed to act? Often you have to tell them who you are through the stories you tell, before they start becoming the church.
  4. Organization – If the church is an organism, the Body of Christ, it must function in a coordinated way.  Lack of organization hinders the Body from expressing itself in a diversity of unified parts.  Organization that’s too rigid doesn’t allow the flexibility the Body needs to fully express itself. Organization helps us live out the cultural values we claim to hold dear.  If we can’t help everyone get involved as the Body, the culture suffers.

Teaching Your Church to Dance

I’m neither a drummer, nor a fan of Dancing with the Stars, but I know enough to tell the difference between the slow, simple rhythm of the waltz and the much faster and more complex rhythm of the salsa. I wonder – do you know the beat your church plant dances to?


Rhythm Creates Momentum

Most North American churches have a rhythm – Sunday morning services, midweek groups, and maybe a meeting or two along the way. Whether that rhythm is ideal, or not, it informs what’s “next.” If it’s Sunday, we go to church service. If it’s Tuesday, we go to group. If it’s the 3rd Thursday, we have a meeting. Rhythm creates momentum. During the formation of a new church those familiar rhythms are missing, and so is the momentum they create.

The absence of established rhythms provides church planters with the opportunity, and responsibility, to create new ones for themselves, their team, their circle of influence and ultimately the new church. How do you establish new rhythms to create missional momentum?


Set The Beat

Start by prioritizing what is important. Things like…

Passionate prayer.
Meeting new people.
Creating space for community to form.
Serving your neighbors.
Spiritual conversations.
Developing leaders.
Celebration.

Order them into daily, weekly and monthly rhythms. For example…

Order each day around prayer and intentional time in public and social spaces to meet new people.
Order each week around community, serving and spiritual conversations.
Order each month around developing leaders and celebrating God’s work in your lives.

Just like there are almost infinite drum patterns, there are more ways to prioritize and order a forming church than could possibly be listed here. Your rhythm needs to fit your calling, capacity and context. Find your rhythm, and you will create missional momentum.

How Do You Fund a New Church?

There are a handful of questions most potential church planters ask.  Some are personal: “Is God really calling me to this?”  Some are very practical: “Where will the money come from?”

If you’re wrestling with that one, here are some options:

  1. You’re independently wealthy.  You wouldn’t be asking if you were, but some planters are.  If you are, good for you – now go put your money to work.
  2. You support yourself by working bi-vocationally.  Paul made tents.  Obviously that means you have less time for ministry, but it also means you don’t have the pressure to “grow fast so you can get paid.”
  3. You are supported by a denomination, network or parent church.  If someone is willing to pay you to start a church, you’ll have a huge burden lifted. Keep in mind that kind of support almost always comes with expectations. The expectations may be things you would do anyway.  They may be things you consider well worth doing in exchange for the support – just make sure you know what the expectations are, and that you are willing to work towards them.
  4. You are supported by others outside your church plant.  This is the American “missionary” way.  It works. You need a network of relationships, a clear and compelling vision and a willingness to ask everyone in that network to support you.  If you’re not willing, that may be an indicator of some things that are going to stand in your way in the future.  If you don’t already have the network, building the network is very difficult and time-consuming, and asking strangers for money is doubly hard.
  5. Your are supported by others inside your church plant.  You need people to go with you on this mission.  If they aren’t willing to put their money in it, they aren’t on mission.  Theoretically 10 tithing families can support a pastor at the average income of the group.  Question is, even if you have the 10 families, do you want all their giving to go to pay you?

Each option has its pros and cons.  Practically speaking, it will make a huge difference simply to figure out which one, or which combination, of these options you’re going after – and then go after it.  If you’re going to be bi-vocational, start preparing for that now.  If you’re raising funds, start building your network.  If you’re going to depend on a team, start gathering them.  Most of the funding fiascoes I’ve observed grow out of lack of clarity.  A planter hopes they are getting denominational support, so they don’t fund raise, then when the denomination’s money doesn’t come, they are left in the lurch.  A planter hopes to raise outside support, but doesn’t start raising the money soon enough and then realizes it’s harder than they thought.  Money should never be a hindrance to the work of God.  Get clear on your funding and get going.

“Do I want to be like you?”

Out of Ur posted this clip from David Kinnaman earlier this week.

He describes a growing “indifference” to Christian faith. One of the leaders in ELI’s Cultivate training has described it this way, “When I talked to people about Jesus, they always ask me the same question. So what?”

What kind of apologetic can you offer for this apathy?

With the new cultural reality, it won’t be your carefully crafted arguments for belief that persuade, but instead, your authentic life of faith. It’s not that your arguments aren’t still true – it is just that people far from God won’t care. They aren’t asking, “What is true?” They are asking, “Do I want to be like you?”

That doesn’t mean you need to perfect – there is only one who is perfect. It does mean your faith needs to be real. Your faith is not something you believe in your head or even with your heart, but something you live with your life. Something that makes you observably different.

As a church planter, this has to inform your priorities:

  • Are you living a life that models authentic faith for the believers in your church and the not yet believers in your community?
  • Are you discipling people in your church so they live an authentic faith?
  • Are you equipping people to tell their stories of faith in ways that create interest, not just win arguments?
  • Are you involved and active in your community in such a way that people notice and say, “They’re doing something that matters?”

There are still essential Biblical truths people need to know. But in order to have those meaningful spiritual conversations people first have to have a reason to care.

Stories of Sifting

Ever feel a bit shaken, like you’re being sifted?

You are not alone!

Our friends at Exponential have lauched a very cool 20 day campaign of daily devotionals on the theme of “sifted.” The new Stories of Sifting web site is now live at www.storiesofsifting.com.
The goal:

Encouraging church planting
leaders to focus on their spiritual,
physical and emotional health as they
are sifted in the journey of ministry.

Every day the site posts a new story of a church planting leader’s
journey of sifting.  These stories are intended to inspire and encourage
planting leaders.   The team has spent the past couple of months researching and writing a series of essays on stories of sifting in the lives of 20+ Bible
leaders.   These short daily devotional stories are being written by a
professional writer in the storytelling style of Max Lucado.

Each entry highlights one devotional thought for leaders to think about.   The
collection of about 25 of these stories along with 25 similar essays from
national leaders will be packaged into a free eBook in the next few months.

Leaders can jump in any time!   You can participate by visiting Stories of Sifted, and by getting the word out on this great resource.